Monthly Archives: August 2014

Sailing while pregnant

Early in my second trimester we moved on to Medina. We continued to live on Medina and take her sailing throughout my pregnancy. All the advice I had read about children living on sailing boats and going cruising was to start them early. So why not when Orbit was still in the womb? Following the learnings from other women who had sailed while pregnant, we confined to the ‘sheltered waters’ and our trips were restricted to weekends or day trips.

Sailing on Moreton Bay

Sailing on Moreton Bay

I didn’t have any big dramas being pregnant or living on Medina. Any issues I did have, I presume I would have had if we had been living in a house (e.g. swollen feet and ankles). For some issues, being on the boat helped. I didn’t get any particular food cravings, but I did have a craving to go swimming and I got to swim in some pretty fantastic locations around Moreton Bay. For the rare opportunity to get to the swimming anchorages of choice, being able to go for a swim in the beautiful clear Moreton Bay waters off Medina was like going to a luxury spa for the day (but much cheaper).

Choosing the right weather was the first step, our weather window was gradually getting narrower as the pregnancy progressed, so when we could get out on a weekend it was priceless (particularly given the Brisbane summer storms). Also having the wind in the appropriate direction was critical, so we weren’t on a lee shore.

The second step was being able to find crew (family and friends) to prevent me from jumping in and doing jobs I really should not be doing while pregnant, e.g. jumping off the boat to tie the first line when coming back into the marina or doing the heavy winching to raise the mainsail etc. Having sailed for the past 15 years, jumping in a doing what needs to be done is second nature. The Skipper was very patient and counseled me in my gradual loss of responsibility. I ended up feeling like a tourist on my own boat but also a little bit self indulgent – if only I could have had a glass of champagne.

Champagne sailing on Moreton Bay

Champagne sailing on Moreton Bay

Once we safely made it to our anchorage, the Skipper would assemble the ladders that would allow me to get in and out of the water. Thank goodness the previous owners enjoyed scuba diving. Our midships ladder is made out of stainless steel and goes about 1.5m into the water, making getting out of the water very easy. There was no need to pull myself against the water to get a foot hold with the shorter or flexible rope ladders, which are great – when your not pregnant.

After much planning and effort, primarily from other people (which I was extremely grateful for), they were entertained by my attempts to swim underwater and duck dive. If you have ever tried to swim underwater or duck dive when you’re pregnant you’ll know what I mean. If not, you basically can’t do it. Your buoyancy changes when you’re pregnant.

After my swim, I would feel so relaxed, even better when I was able to wash the salt off in a fresh water shower. Throw in lunch, fantastic company and an afternoon nap – I felt like I had been at a luxury spa.

In my final month of pregnancy, I gave in and we didn’t go sailing, neither of us wanted me to go into labor in the middle of Moreton Bay. The next sailing trip would have to wait, 10 weeks in fact. But that trip is another story.

Information from the women who had lived on a sailing boat while pregnant was crucial in my positive experience; if you’re interested, check out

Replacing the shower bilge pump

A few weeks a go, after I put my hand up for taking on the job of getting us and Medina ready to go cruising, I spotted the first maintenance job to tackle on my own.

There was a crack in the rubber of the shower bilge pump. On our boat, the water from the shower goes into a holding tank or bilge where it patiently waits to be pumped out after each shower. It looked like an easy enough job, I just needed to replace the rubber seal. It would only take me an hour or two (including a trip to the chandlery), surely …

shower bilge pump 1

The photo above is our shower, the shower bilge pump is the small black bit just under the ‘seat’

I announced my grand plan to the Skipper who’s response was, ‘yep, all yours’ with a knowing smile. I should have known, we have been together for nearly 10 years, the ‘yep, all yours’ and a knowing smile means trouble. Trouble for me.  It means the Skipper knows exactly what I am about to get myself into and he is sitting back, watching, waiting to see how I go, with two usual outcomes:

  • Outcome A – I manage to do it on my own, which he is proud of me for doing and a job off his to do list; or
  • Outcome B – I need to get him involved, which he loves because he is the hero and gets a job off his to do list.

So the ‘yep, all yours’ means trouble for me and a win:win situation for him.

I waited for a day when Orbit wasn’t on the boat. We have learnt not to tackle any maintenance tasks that involve time, contortions (from working in a small space), mess or tools that will be in his reach (i.e. most maintenance jobs).

Three weeks ago, the day arrived. While I was in the process of removing the pump, the Skipper passed on a handy tip that went along these lines –

Skipper – ‘you many want to use a hair dryer to heat and soften the flexible pipes to make it easier to remove the pump’.

Me – ‘you know I don’t own a hair dryer’

Skipper – ‘I do’ (the Skipper doesn’t have any hair’)

Me – ‘why?’

Skipper – ‘for work, its in the car if you need it’

Me – ‘nope, all good, I already have the pipes off’

Skipper – ‘oh, wasn’t expecting that, its cold’

Once I had the bilge pump in the sunlight and had a better look at it, I realised it wasn’t the rubber that was cracked, it was the plastic where the handle goes in.

old and new bilge shower bilge pump

The old pump is on the left (you can see the crack) and the new one is on the left.

I had to confess to the Skipper that the job was going to be bigger than just replacing the rubber. His response was ‘yep’ and sent me off the Chandlery with ‘my pump’ in pieces and instructions of what to ask for. It turns out that the part that needed replacing isn’t a spare part, so I had to order a new pump and came home with the old pump and a hose clamp as a temporary fix.

A few days later the pump arrived, all excited and child free I set about swapping the pumps over – easy I thought, the old one was easy enough to pull out so the new one should be able to go back in …

Three attempts and three weeks later I have completed my first maintenance task!

The silly pump (I assure you I was calling it other names) just would not fit back in! I tried fitting it in the opposite order to how I pulled out the old pump – no joy. I tried changing the order, trying to work out why the pump would not fit.

There was also the extra challenge of working in a small area. Most of the work was occurring behind the seat in the shower which meant I could not see most of what I was doing. Putting a torch in the area behind the seat did help a bit though. Also having only one access point meant I was working with one hand – luckily I am right handed.

working area for replacing shower bilge pump


The ‘working area’ is lit up by the torch and the only entry point is via the inspection port.

On the forth attempt I worked out that it was the flexible water pipes stopping the pump from laying flush. How do I fix it? A few swear words, coffee and a load of washing later I remembered the words of the Skipper ‘you many want to use a hair dryer to heat and soften the pipes to make it easier to remove the pump’. I also remembered that he has a hair dryer in his car, but he was at work, presumably melting flexible pipes with it. I considered tracking down another live aboard who may have a hairdryer but then I remembered out little heater – surely it could do the same thing? And it did.

new shower bilge pump in place

New shower bilge pump in place

Tips on replacing the shower bilge pump, i.e. things that the instructions won’t tell you:

  1. If your listening to a CD or playlist less than an hour – put it on repeat – for any inaugural maintenance job it will take longer than you think and just when your in a contorted position the music will stop.  But no prizes because you’re not playing twister
  2. Have a bucket ready – there will be water in the pump, it is only shower water but you may not want to wear it.
  3. Wear comfy clothes – you will be getting in contorted positions trying to either see what your doing or screw something together or both at the same time.
  4. Pop a towel over the shower grate – it will stop any dropped screws falling into the bilge (see the section on something things I learnt that I didn’t need to know).
  5. Have a hair dryer handy to realign the flexible pipes – they may not align with the new pump and heating them up makes them easier to manipulate. It is also handy to heat up the rubber seal – it’s the only way I could get it into position.

Things I learnt but didn’t necessarily need to know:

  1. What is at the bottom of the shower bilge (I found this out by searching for dropped screws a number of times).
  2. I now have to clean out the shower bilge as part of cleaning the shower, I can’t know about what is down there and not clean it.

I am not sure if you could use a heater for a hair dryer but I am sure that the Skipper will be proud of me and a job is off our to do list.

Let the adventure begin

Welcome to my first post.

I am using this first post as an opportunity to bring you up to speed with the story so far (the short version).

The Skipper and I have been dreaming about ‘going cruising’ since we first got together. After many years of discussing the best boat design for us and saving, we were finally in the position to start looking at boats. I clearly remember the day that I found Medina on, I was showing a work mate how good the website was and using the design of boat we were after as an example … and there she was (and in the marina 5 minutes away from where we lived).

After the usual pre-purchase process, we were at the crunch time of putting in an offer. An hour before our meeting with the broker I did a pregnancy test. The test was positive and we had to make an even bigger life changing decision, we could not afford to buy the boat and live in a house, it was an either or situation; I was pregnant and we had a meeting with the broker …

We agreed to put in an offer because the bigger regret would be not giving it ago rather than giving a it go and realising that we would be better off living in a house and raising our child. The owners accepted our offer and the adventure began.

Orbit is now 16 months and happy growing up on Medina. I’ll post about my experiences about being pregnant and living on a sailing boat and raising a newborn through to being a toddler. I’ll also post about getting Medina ready to go cruising.